It has been a view days ago when I had a fight with a TVST member. If you don’t know the full story, read the posts under this post, so you understand the complete story.
The past days I was a little bit angry and pissed. He reported me for some bad words what I told him in a private chat. Yes I know, very in mature from me and I am really sorry. I have to know better. I did apologize a few times…
But the main point in this story is, that he started the whole scene. He made the noise, he made the problem and I responded to that. Sometimes in your frustration you react on things in a bad way… That is the nature of a human being.
But the clue is, to forget and forgive each other. Is not always simple, I understand that. But we are grown up people, aren’t we? So talk about the problem and try to solve the problem. I tried people, I tried. But I only get this answer: “Leave me alone, don’t bother me, I don’t want to talk with you.” Hmmm, are you so mad at yourself that you don’t want to solve problems? Or don’t you understand, that with talking you can solve problems?
Ah well, I can write complete stories about this case, but this will be my last post about TVST against me. Why should I put more energy in it? I did my best to solve the problem, but the TVST member putted his head in the sand. Great way mate!
Now days it seem to be a problem if you are funny. I try to be funny; sometimes I make jokes in a sarcastic why. Sometimes when I make a joke about a particular person, then sometimes the person does not like the joke. Well, I can imagine that, but read the joke and laugh a little bit. Laughing makes you old, laughing makes the world people! And don’t forget, I have also made some jokes with self-spot in it.
But it seems a very big problem that I like to make jokes. So I decided to stop making jokes, to stop with reacting in some chats and forums. Why should I react? If you react in an in-correct way, you get a report… Some people asked me what is wrong with me… Now you know the story.
I know, I know, that is not VKUltras. But I think its better to relax, calm down and not to respond on everything. I though when I respond, people can see that you are active. Wrong toughs… I am sorry :(
So, did VKUltras learned in this case? Yes I do. I understand that I have to press sometimes my feelings down and to react in a political way. But please understand, I am a human too? I am not a robot! Well I am going to try it. And when we shall see if it works!
I rest my case, thank you for reading.
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
And the story goes on…
Geplaatst door VKUltras op 2:21 AM 0 reacties
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Oeps, I am so sorry…
Yesterday some TVST members discovered our new blog. Not a big point you think, but wait till I write further.
A TVST member was angry with one of my lines in the post yesterday. Here is a quote of the line which made the TVST member furious: “As you probably already know, we where someday in TVST and we left them quick after joining. Wondering why we left…” And the main reason why he becomes angry is because I wrote that Lucky and me left the building. Am I lying? Ah no, I am not, but should I tell the complete story, or is it old dust? It was in May this year, almost 6 months ago. Why should I clean up the dust again?
Well, to be honest, I had a fight with one of the TVST members. Why the fight started? Because I laughed about his picture, which he posted on the TVST blog. As you people probably don’t know, but the kid is 13. So you can imagine, that his world was over. VKUltras telling in public that I am ugly. Come on, you started the joke, I finished it. So, what is the problem?
Lucky and me are close friends. We met each other here on Powerchallenge.com and we have also contact outside the game. But the main factor of a friendship is simple: “We go out together, we come home together.” Sound not more then normal in my eyes.
So with a lot of noise, Lucky and me decided to start a whole new clan. Our own place, where people can giver their opinion without having crying people around us. Come on, it is just a game, not real life; so don’t make of the joke a problem.
To come back about yesterday. Some of the users of TVST made some problems at our chat. Stuff about me, all in a bad way. Am I so bad? Thinking about something what happened 6 months ago? Grow up and go further in life, that’s how I think about it. That’s my opinion.
So in my frustration I become also crazy. Shouting, yelling, insulting. Come VK, why? For Christ sake, you are 26, not 13. Well, some times you can’t handle emotions in a correct way. I want to apologize for my bad behaviour. I am sorry dear members of TVST!
Don’t forget, I am not making a clan war. We are old enough to understand that. But some competition between clans is not that bad at all. Look at it at a sportive way! Competition is good for your skills, sportsmanship and so on.
So again, TVST, this is not a war, never mend to insult someone, or to start a fight, it is a game and games have always a competition. Grow up and make fun! That is the main reason why I play PowerSoccer. To enjoy, make fun and to relax.
And never forget:
Geplaatst door VKUltras op 1:22 AM 0 reacties